Love-A-Dub-Dub

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I was felled by a severe backache the week of February 14.  This happened once before almost a year ago; a giant knot forms in my lower back/hip area and basically immobilizes me.

I couldn’t pick up Katie, or haul laundry, or drive.  Things that fell on the floor stayed on the floor.  Days were passed lying on the couch, taking large doses of ibuprofen, and rubbing my back with ice packs.  And moaning slightly when Katie got bored and dumped stuff on the floor.

By Valentine’s Day, I was slightly better, but still very sore.  However, I was thoroughly fed up with the whole situation and decided to make my family a fancy meal for the holiday.

Part of this is because we’ve been reading a picture book called Badger’s Fancy Meal. I basically just wanted to see William  lift his fork and repeat the catchphrase from the book “a really fancy meal.”  Which I got in spades.

So, what can you make when it hurts to do anything?  Frozen food from Trader Joe’s!

Yup: they do have cheap frozen beef bourgignon, cheap bottles of sparkling chardonnay grape juice (that come with a cork on the top and everything), and cheap little pastry bites stuffed with spinach/artichoke stuff.  And cheap roses.

Voila!

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The kids were excited to have the nice plates, candles, the whole bit.  While waiting for the beef to bake, I was able to make some mashed potatoes and ice cream.

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Please do not be impressed with the ice cream.  Homemade ice cream takes almost no effort.  But please do be impressed that I decided to try one of the more unusual flavors from my cookbook: pine nut and olive oil.

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Very elegant with a strawberry and chocolate-almond lace cookie, no?  (Also thanks to Trader Joe’s.)

All consumed with one hand holding an ice pack behind my back.

Oh, and for Grandma Brian’s-Mom: the kids loved the Valentine presents.  Here’s the photo evidence:

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Katie insisted that I put the new doll clothes on her baby doll toute-de-suite.

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Eleanor and William spent a large chunk of yesterday afternoon putting together giant pipe-cleaner creations.  There are fuzzy dinosaurs all over the house.

And . . . well . . . Jeffrey was so excited about his book that he immediately went to bed so he could stay up late and read it.  That’s right, WENT TO BED. And I didn’t get a picture.  That’s how much he loved it!

William Quote: Life Is Tough

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Today I sat down to help William with his reading homework, and he immediately leaned in for a hug.  I realized I hadn’t really cuddled with him at all today.

ME:  Aw, William.  Is life sometimes tough for you?

WILL: Yeah.

ME: What makes it tough to be William?

WILL:  Hmmm . . . .

[he thinks for a bit]

WILL: Well, I really like ice cream.

[beat]

ME: Oh, you mean you like ice cream, but you only get to have it once in a while?

WILL: Yeah.

ME:  And that’s what makes life tough?

WILL: Yeah.

ME: What else?

WILL: I have to do my reading before I can open up any of my Valentines.  And it’s really tough to keep my eyes closed when someone is saying a prayer.

ME: It’s tough to do that?

WILL: Yeah, and when I’m praying, too.

[pause]

WILL:  And that’s all.

ME:  Those are the only things that make life tough?  Not having enough ice cream, having to do reading before opening valentines, and keeping your eyes closed?

WILL:  When there’s a prayer.  And when I’m praying too.

ME:  Well, let’s take care of one of those right now, okay?

Any guesses as to which one we did?

Favorite Books for Young Readers 2012

Back due to popular demand — my list of personal favorites from the realm of children’s/YA publishing.  Yaaaaaay!!

[Kermit-the-Frog-style clapping]

Remember: these are not by any means a comprehensive list of critical acclaim, award-winners, or bestsellers.  If I were making a list of “books from 2012 that libraries should buy” then said list would be far, far longer.

I also can’t guarantee that every book on this list is one meant for you.  I’m a librarian, which means that out of necessity I have far-ranging tastes.  Last year my friend who favors the likes of Wallace Stegner and Cormick McCarthy looked at my annual list and picked out Heather Dixon’s Entwined.  She didn’t like it, and no surpise!  I nearly had to lie down at the thought of such a literary mismatch.  Still makes me smile when I think of it.

It’s just a list of serendipitous faves based entirely on my personal tastes.  Enjoy.

Also, if you’re wondering why it takes me so long to make this list every year (sheesh, February already?) let me remind you: four children.  FOUR.

PICTURE BOOKS

dreaming up

If you’re only going to read one picture book this year, read: Dreaming Up: a Celebration of Building by Christy Hale.  This book most excellently correlates the way children play with real-life architecture.  Awesome photography and illustration — you just FEEL SMARTER after reading it.

z is for moose

Best Metafiction: Z is for Moose by Kelly Bingham, illus. Paul O. Zelinsky

chloe and the lion

No Wait, THIS is the Best Metafiction: Chloe and the Lion by Mac Barnett, illus. Adam Rex

green

Prettiest Concept Book Ever: Green by Laura Vaccaro Seeger.

maudie and bear

Imaginary Friends Know What’s Best: Maudie and Bear by Jan Ormerod, illus. Freya Blackwood

one cool friend

Your Father Knows You Better Than You Think: One Cool Friend by Toni Buzzeo, illus. David Small.

each kindness

Best Book About Bullying in a Long, Long While: Each Kindness by Jaqueline Woodson, illus. E. B. Lewis.

charley's first night

Boys Can Be Nurturers, Too: Charley’s First Night by Amy Hest, illus. Helen Oxenbury

demolition

CARS AND TRUUUUUUCKS: Demolition by Sally Sutton, illus. Brian Lovelock

nighttime ninja

Ninjas Are Always in Style: Nighttime Ninja by Barbara DeCosta, illus. Ed Young.

chloe

Bunnies!  Bubble Wrap!  Bunnies WITH Bubble Wrap! Chloe by Peter McCarty

up tall and high

It’s Harder Than it Looks to Write a Story With Simple Vocabulary: Up, Tall and High! by Ethan Long

unspoken

Complain About Life All You Want, At Least You’re Not On the Underground Railroad: Unspoken: a Story of the Underground Railroad by Henry Cole

eggs 123

ULTIMATE CUTENESS: Eggs 1, 2, 3 by Janet Halfmann, illus. Betsy Thompson

swing

Best Board Book: The Swing by Robert Louis Stevenson, illus. Julie Morstad

this is not my hat

Kinda Dark for a Kids’ Book (But That’s What I Love About It): This is Not My Hat by Jon Klassen

POETRY/FOLKLORE:

national geographic poetry

If you’re only going to read one book from this category, try: The National Geographic Book of Animal Poetry edited by J. Patrick Lewis.  I was skeptical about this book for a long while, but seriously, this is a gorgeous gift-worthy book for more than just kids.

forgive me

Second place: Forgive Me, I Meant to Do It: False Apology Poems by Gail Carson Levine, illus. Matthew Cordell

leave your sleep

I Usually Don’t Like Books Based on Albums, But This Is So Pretty: Leave Your Sleep: a collection of classic children’s poetry adapted to music by Natalie Merchant, illus. Barbara McClintock.  BARBARA McCLINTOCK!!  *swoon*

step gently out

Best Up-Close Photography of the Year: Step Gently Out by Helen Frost, photographs by Rick Lieder.

town mouse country mous

I Like it Because It’s PRETTY, Okay? The Town Mouse and the Country Mouse: an Aesop’s Fable retold and illustrated by Helen Ward

robin hood

FINALLY!  A version of Robin Hood that I can read aloud to seven-year-olds while remaining faithful to the original stories!  Robin Hood retold by David Calcutt, illus. Grahame Baker-Smith

hans

Hedgehog.  Hedgehog that plays the violin and rides a rooster: Hans My Hedgehog: a tale from the Brothers Grimm retold by Kate Coombs, illus. John Nickle

goldilocks

‘Cause Being Weird is Sometimes the Best Way to Go: The Goldilocks Variations: A Pop-Up Book by Alan Ahlberg, illus. Jessica Ahlberg

MIDDLE GRADE NOVELS 

twelve kinds of ice

If you’re only going to read one of ’em, try: Twelve Kinds of Ice by Ellen Bryan Obed, illus. Barbara McClintock.  BARBARA McCLINTOCK!!  *swoon*  This nostalgic, lyrical little volume about the author’s childhood memories of ice skating — on ponds, streams, fields, pastures, and on a backyard ice rink — was pretty much the only thing I wanted for Christmas last year.  And I got it.  And I’ve read it about five times, and I’m already wanting to read it again.  This book is sheer happiness: and I don’t even know how to skate.

one and only ivan

The Charlotte’s Web of 2012: The One and Only Ivan by Katherine Applegate  (people who cried over Dumbo should probably bring Kleenex)

mr mrs bunny

Brilliant in its glorious weirdness.  Also, only book of 2012 to make me laugh out loud multiple times: Mr. & Mrs. Bunny: Detectives Extraordinaire! by Polly Horvath

splendors glooms

Victorians were darn creepy with those death masks and all: Splendors & Glooms by Laura Amy Schlitz

goblin secrets

STEAMPUNK! Goblin Secrets by William Alexander

summer gypsy moths

In which the foster children bury their deceased caregiver in the front yard, and a Gentle Coming of Age Story ensues: Summer of the Gypsy Moths by Sara Pennypacker

lulu duck park

Best British Humour for the K-3 set: Lulu and the Duck in the Park by Hilary McKay.

chickadee

Little House on the Prairie — from the Ojibwe perspective (and a great adventure story, too): Chickadee by Louise Erdrich

GRAPHIC NOVELS (you know, comic books)

drama

If you’re going to read just one, read: Drama by Raina Telegemier.  Nobody knows the trials and triumphs of seventh grade like this author.

nathan hales hazardous

Nobody makes history cool like this guy does: One Dead Spy and Big Bad Ironclad! (Nathan Hale’s Hazardous Tales series) by Nathan Hale (you know, the guy who did Rapunzel’s Revenge)

little white duck

Life in China is more complicated than you think: Little White Duck: a childhood in China by Na Liu, illus. Andres Vera Martinez

legends of zita

My kids can’t get enough of this series: Legends of Zita the Spacegirl by Ben Hatke

cardboard

I’m just dazzled by this guy’s imagination: Cardboard by Doug TenNapel

babys in black

For fans of rock history (esp. early Beatles): Baby’s in Black: Astrid Kirchherr, Stuart Sutcliffe, and the Beatles by Arne Bellstorf (this was a big bestseller in Germany, where it was originally published)

YOUNG ADULT FICTION 

code name verity

If you’re going to read just one, read: Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein.  A multilayered, sophisticated story of spies and female friendship during WWII.  Wein’s novels often deal with the moral predicaments of spies (I loved her earlier novel, The Lion Hunter), and this take is a triumph.

confusion of princes

Best Old-School Science Fiction: A Confusion of Princes by Garth Nix.  Okay, I’ll admit that the complex world-building made the first quarter of the novel a little slow.  But the protagonist’s voice is clever enough to carry you through.  JUST GET THROUGH THE FIRST 150 PAGES AND IT’S 100% AWESOME AFTERWARDS, OKAY??

enchanted

Best Fairytale Mashup (and I do not give this award out lightly): Enchanted by Alethea Kontis  This book got a unanimous “in favor of” vote from the members of the YALSA Best Books for YAs meeting.  I know because I was there and did a little hop in my seat!

no crystal stair

Booksellers in Harlem are Freaking Awesome: No Crystal Stair: a documentary novel of the life and work of Lewis Michaux, Harlem bookseller by Vaunda Micheaux Nelson

keeping the castle

Best Jane Austen Tribute: Keeping the Castle by Patrice Kindl

grave mercy

Historical Fantasy with crossbows and poisoned chalices and secrets and awesome dresses and WOW: Grave Mercy by Robin LaFevers

jepp who defied the stars

Being a Renaissance-era Dwarf is Nothing Like that guy in Game of Thrones: Jepp Who Defied the Stars by Katherine Marsh

unspoken

Gothic supernatural romance tempered with a hefty dose of British snark: Unspoken by Sarah Rees Brennan

NON FICTION — Truthfully, probably my favorite category this year

bomb

If you’re going to read just one, read: Bomb: the race to build — and steal — the world’s most dangerous weapon by Steve Sheinkin.  Shienkin writes gripping history with a novelistic narrative style that’s really fun to read.  This tale of the atomic arms race is a nail biter, ranging from the shenanigans of the eccentric scientists at Los Alamos, to the inner workings of sinister Soviet espionage, to the incredible team of Norwegian resistance fighters out to destroy a Nazi-operated heavy water plant.  Forget James Bond and Indiana Jones: this is real adventure.  Love it!

temple grandin

Best Biography: Temple Grandin: how the girl who loved cows embraced autism and changed the world by Sy Montgomery.  Cows!  Autism!  What’s not to love?

chuck close face book

Best Autobiography: Chuck Close: Face Book by Chuck Close.  Not only a fascinating portrait of one of the United States’ best artists, but an amazing story of someone who overcomes incredible hardship to keep doing what he loves (Close has severe learning disabilities, and suffered a massive stroke as an adult; he is still paralyzed from the chest down).  The centerpiece of this volume is a flip-book section where readers can mix-and-match different Close self-portraits in a variety of styles.

fairy ring

Best story you’re always been curious about: The Fairy Ring, or, Elsie and Frances Fool the World by Mary Losure.  You know, the Cottingley fairy photographs and the little girls who took them!  How on earth did anybody think those pictures were real?

Museum Day

When I lived in Pittsburgh, I made a weekly habit of taking my children to a museum every Friday.  Since my employment at the library got me into lots of museums for free, it was easy to do.  But then I quit my job, moved to Salt Lake, and the kids grew up and went to school.  Museum day fell by the wayside.

Fast forward a few years — I decided to bring a little Katie into the world, and we moved to Seattle.  Suddenly we have all these new museums to visit, and a little girl to share them with.  Museum Day is back!

So today: the Seattle Art Museum.  I wasn’t able to take any pictures of the inside of the place, because Katie was so excited to be there that we dashed right by the sign showing the museum’s photography policy without reading it.  Just rest assured that we saw lots of amazing Georgia O’Keefe paintings and painted thunderbird totem poles.  So here we are with Hammering Man, outside.

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And can I say how friendly people are downtown?  I maneuvered my stroller to a door, and someone leaped forward to open it for me.  I paused for a moment to look at at street sign, and a man in a suit immediately asked if I needed help getting around.  Nice, right?  I’ve read that Seattle had a reputation for courtesy, but it’s great to see it in action for myself.

On the way there, we stopped at Soundbridge, the education space for the Seattle Symphony.  They have a big room full of different instruments for kids to play.  Katie was scared of the cello and double bass (too loud, maybe?) but she loved the 1/4-size violin.

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Cute, right?  She was also a little too shy to play the xylophone for very long, but the red ukulele?  She loved it so much I had to pry it out of her hands when it was time to go.

Next time I’ll plan to stay longer so I can take advantage of the wicked set of gourmet food trucks I passed on my way back to the parking garage.  There was even a GRILLED CHEESE TRUCK.  *swoon*

Katie Update

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Katie . . .

  • Has learned how to get a drink for herself from the water dispenser in the fridge.  She usually takes a sip, then spits it out all over the kitchen floor.
  • She also knows how to get pears for herself from the fruit bowl.  I’ve slipped on three half-eaten pears this week, all left on the living room floor.
  • Pears are obtained by moving around the kitchen step-stool.  She usually does this by picking up the stool and yelling “I’ve got it!” which is now one of my most dreaded phrases to hear
  • Insists on wearing a princess dress to the park (see picture, above.  Her dress is stuffed in the swing)
  • Insists on carrying a little travel-sized bar of soap wherever she goes, including trips away from home
  • If you forget the soap, she yells “DOAP DOAP DOAP” until you get it for her
  • Has discovered how to get into the sugar bowl in the pantry, which she usually goes after with double-fisted sugar-munching action.  Last time she had a big wooden serving spoon to get more of it.
  • She’s so euphoric with sugar that any attempts to discipline her (scolding, time-outs) are pointless, since she’s just laughing madly and chuckling “SUGAH!  SUGAH! SUGAH!”  until I give up.  (Yes, I should move the sugar to a higher shelf, but that would require cleaning out my Tetris-like pantry entirely)
  • Frequent viewings of Sesame Street led to a habit of laughing like Ernie whenever she thinks she’s done something clever
  • Lately there’s a high interest in using the toilet.  Except she often confuses her consonants, and so calls the “potty” a “cubby.”  And whenever someone else uses the bathroom, she gets possessive.  “MY CUBBY!  MY CUBBY!”
  • Insists on helping fold clothes (usually unfolding whatever I’ve already done)
  • Insists on helping wash floor (usually by spitting water all over the floor first)
  • Insists on helping to re-organize china cabinet (today she dropped a glass goblet into a crystal pitcher.  The goblet broke, but the pitcher’s fine)
  • Went totally ballistic when she saw the merry-go-round during our most recent trip to the zoo.  She got to ride it (see picture, below) but the resulting tantrum when it was time to get off caused my other three children to say, “Mom, I like the zoo, but I think Katie needs to go home.”
  • Asks to snuggle on my lap with a sippy cup while watching My Little Pony.  She does this by grabbing my legs, batting her eyelashes, and asking “A ba-ba?  A pony?  A lap?”
  • is pretty much irresistible.  Thank goodness she takes 3-hour naps.

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Katie Turned 2; Here’s the Birthday Party

Woodland animal cupcakes!

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Owls, hedgehogs, bears, raccoons.  The hedgehogs were the most popular.  Because sprinkles.

And Aunt Kristen was there!  Grandma was there, too, but somehow wasn’t in any of my pictures.  My latest dithering efforts with the ice cream maker meant we had three kinds of sorbet: meyer lemon, blood orange, and kiwi.  Blood orange was the most popular.  Because blood.

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And we didn’t have any birthday candles, so we just used regular candlesticks.  Katie enjoyed this, but when it came time to blow them out, she opened her mouth and SCREAMED.

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Yeah, this picture makes it look like her mouth is open in a state of gleeful surprise.  No, she’s shrieking.  This may be my favorite new method to blow out birthday candles.

” . . . biiiiirth-daaaay toooo youuuuuu–”

“EEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAA!AIAIAIAIA!”

We gave her a doll for her birthday.  Katie was thrilled enough that she spent a good 15 minutes at bedtime singing it a nonsense-sound lullaby.  D’awwwww.

Eleanor also spent all of dinnertime creating “party stations” upstairs.  There was a station for making paper flowers, one for a beanbag game, one for a puppet show, one for drawing.  She used colored tape on the floor and hung handwritten signs to show where each activity was to take place.  I’d have commended her more if she hadn’t used this project as an excuse to skip dinner (we were eating something she didn’t like).

But: this paper airplane.  How can you stay mad at someone when they make this for their little sister’s birthday?

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